Friday, October 8, 2010

Go find yourself

Why is everyone so happy chasing a dream that is not their own? What joy do you get from the achievement of a goal that you never set for yourself? Even a lion thought he was a sheep until he saw his own reflection just coz he had spent his life among them...as one of them. Are you happy being a sheep just coz your surrounded by a herd ?  Or would you rather dare to see a true reflection of who you are and learn to roar? Each one of us has a lion inside us waiting to roar but we don't want it to do that coz it takes the courage of facing your true self which most of us don't really have. Why do we take a beaten track and follow it with such sincerity ? Is it coz we really want to reach the destination it leads us to? I doubt. Its because we are scared to go into the darkness of a path never taken, for we doubt our own ability to deal with the obstacles it may offer us. We do what the world does and comfort ourselves each day saying "everyone is doing it..its not just me" at take pride in it. Shame on us if we are happy about doing something that everyone does. If you were here to do what everyone else does, what then is your own identity? We follow others in everything they do yet point fingers at them if something they do doesn't please us. Let us atleast be consistent in our behavior! We commit mistakes all the time and some of them too big to be called mistakes, yet we don't see them coz well its ok to make mistakes but when another person does it we are the first to point fingers.
Make mistakes, but let them be your own so that its you who learns from them and its you who shoulders the responsibility. Go run blindly, but run to chase a dream that you saw. Go take a path but not the one that everyone else took, but the one that offers you new challenges. Go taste the fruit of the satisfaction and joy you get from achieving a goal that was YOURS.

8 comments:

  1. I second you pranshu,many of us should understand our dreams and chase them..

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  2. have you ever considered the price of being different? talkin in terms of marketing...how many innovative launches are successful in the market? i know you the answer, so what went wrong? strategy? appeal? maturity? visibility? huh? same's true for a person hence the comfort in the stereotype...u know u'l get some share of the pie!

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  3. reminds me of Robert Frost's poem,two roads diverged in a wood and i took the less travelled by and that has made all the difference.however, we shouldn't be impractical and quixotic in the quest of following the unbeaten path.
    nice thoughts though :)

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  4. lol @ Shivani...i dont play the game keeping in mind safety...i play it my way..i dont care how much the price is..if i believe in it ..i ll do it my way :D

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  5. Atleast the mistakes will be mine to call my own.. atleast I'd know that I tried that crazy idea of mine when people stood against it.. the beaten track usually turns out to be not your calling and you realise it only too late... and that time you can point fingers to a lot of people for misleading you but would that help, you'd be bearing with the mistakes... there'l be nobody to carry your albatross... But then again the beaten path does turn out to be somebody's calling or the other depends on which part of the confidence limit you want to fall on... it takes courage but definitely worth the cause..:)

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  6. totally irrelevant to @above posts..
    used to really wonder at ur scores for time aimcats last season!
    had thot u wud break d record for youngst guy 2 get in2 iim-a, hope u remember sm1 tellin u dat???
    ws disappointed cat 2010 normalized u, just gt 2 c u r in xlri..
    happy 4 u!
    xatiim @ pg.

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  7. @ Rahul.. why be disappointed? IIM A doesnt make me who I am..nor does XLRI..I shall be what i set to be..irrespective of the tag of the college i hold with me :D and yes i do remember u telling me that :)

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  8. really inspiring rather guiding..

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